Did you know that according to GALLUP World Poll, conducted in 2019, approximately 44% of Russian women before 30 years old would prefer to move permanently to another country. 65% of them want to find a husband abroad. That is an impressive number!
Very similar situation is in other Eastern European countries like Ukraine and Belarus. Let’s try to find the main reasons why slavic women are looking for a husband abroad.
1. Russian Women vs Russian Men Ratio
Let’s start with obvious and indisputable facts. Just take a look at demographic situation in Russia:
source: Wikipedia
An average Russian man lives 10 years less than a Russian woman. Also, the total sex ratio is 0.86 male / 1 female (0.87 Belarus and 0.85 Ukraine). Clearly, there are much more women than men in these Slavic countries.
Due to various demographic reasons plenty of females in this region cannot find a man locally. Therefore, they are forced to look for options abroad.
2. First Marriage Ratio & Divorces in Russia / Ukraine / Belarus
One more important demographic fact is that these 3 countries have the smallest age of the first marriage (about 27 for guys and 25 for girls) in Europe. Just take a look at the stats:
source: Wikipedia
It means that statistically if you are a Russian woman over 30, your chances to find a “never married” soulmate is quite low.
On the other hand just check the divorce stats in the world:
source: Wikipedia
It is highly predictable that Eastern European countries have a very bad divorce crude rate. So, at the end of the day we have another portion of disappointed Russian women. And surely some of them will start looking for foreign men.
3. Financial Situation in Eastern Europe
Did you know that average salary in Ukraine is $301 (according to 2018 Ukrainian Treasury report). So, it’s about $10/day. It’s really hard to imagine how one can survive with such an income.
Moreover, there is an economical disproportion. Men earn slightly more than women. Therefore, female workers are financially insecure. But even though men earn a bit more, they still cannot provide their families with necessary things like home, food, holidays abroad, etc.
No matter how regrettable it sounds, women in Slavic countries have no choice as to look for someone financially secured. And of course, men from the Western Europe and the USA can provide this.
4. Social Situation
One more egregious fact is that Eastern Europe is traditionally patriarchal region. It means that even though a constitution guarantees equal rights for male and female citizens, in real life men have much more rights and opportunities.
In Russia, Belarus and Ukraine men own businesses, become political and social leaders, hold important positions in companies and organizations. This causes prejudices that women play a secondary role in society.
Quite a popular expression there is:
“Hey, woman, your place is in the kitchen”.
Or another popular one :
“Don’t be a woman”.
When you want to offend a slavic man, feel free to use it. Hence, it’s absolutely difficult for those ladies that want a bit freedom and self-realization.
5. Law and Domestic Violence
Did you know that as of 2017 a domestic violence is no longer a crime in Russia? It’s not a joke. It may sound like a medieval wildness, but when a husband hits his wife at home, it is not even considered as a violence.
Moreover, a Russian legal practice shows that Police doesn’t even want to accept lawsuits from wives against their husbands. It began to grow into beating children as well. And even if for some reason police accepts the claim and decides that a man is guilty, he gets only a minimal fine. And then Russian women continue suffering.
Obviously, not all Russian men behave like that. But the law allows this opportunity. And that is one more reason why Slavic girls prefer men from abroad. They register at online dating sites, like TenderBride or search in Social Media.
6. Cannot Find a Husband Locally
Some Russian women simply cannot find a husband locally. There are different reasons why local men are not suitable:
Strong alcohol consumption. According to WHO (World Health Organization) Russia and Ukraine are in top 5 European countries by consuming drinks with high spirits volume. Hence, the alcoholism is very big problem, especially among the men.
Inability to support a family. Unfortunately, due to various reasons (including financial and mental) some slavic men cannot afford a family. Thus, they are not even trying to find serious relationships.
Divorce experience. We already mentioned that due to early marriages and high divorce rate some Russian men are simply afraid of getting married again soon.
7. Serious Attitude towards Marriage
Plenty of girls from the Eastern Europe are raised in quite a traditional families with classical life values. So, they are looking for strong and serious relationships. Typical Ukrainian or Russian woman doesn’t think much about personal career. She thinks more about her present and future family members.
There are various of organizations in Russia, Belarus and Ukraine that help them to find a job abroad. And significant amount of people have an experience of working and living abroad. Each Ukrainian have either a family member or a friend that used to work and live in Europe or the USA.
And as a result those women that worked abroad, have an experience of communicating with American and European men. Some of them stay in that countries. Others, that return back home, stop looking internally and try to find a soulmate in other countries.
9. Interest from the West and Dating Sites
An additional catalyst is that plenty of American men look for a wife from the other country. Interesting that every 5th family in the USA has either a husband or a wife born not in North America.
Moreover, there are plenty of free online dating sites that facilitate international communication. Some of them, like VictoriyaClub focuses specifically on connecting men from the USA / Europe with Slavic women.
10. Climate
And the last but not the least is climate. Did you know that in January 2019 the temperature in Siberia fell down to -53°C (-63°F)?
Unfortunately plenty of people in Russia have to leave their native land due to health problems, weather inconveniences, etc.
Another problem is that there is a polar night in some Russian regions. It’s when you don’t see a sun during 6 months in a row. Not only people are morally depressed. They also have problems with health related to lack of vitamins.
Wrap Up
As we can see, there are plenty of reasons why women from Slavic countries look for a husband abroad. And vice versa, men from the USA and Europe find in these women those qualities that they cannot find locally. Thanks to modern trends and globalization process this is definitely possible.
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Many single men from western countries know that the best women with whom they can build happy families live in Slavic countries. Lots of men look for single girls in Ukraine and Russia because of their natural beauty, intelligence, style, and plenty of other reasons. What makes Russian dating so attractive to foreigners? Why do men from Western countries use Ukrainian dating sites? Let’s find answers to these and other questions in this article.
Ukrainian Girls vs Russian Girls
When looking for your soulmate in Slavic countries, you need to decide if those Ukrainian women or Russian girls with whom you will be able to build a happy family. To help you with this, let’s compare some of the key traits of Ukrainian and Russian ladies.
Even though you may think that Russian and Ukrainian women are similar, there are some differences in the way they communicate and think of love and marriage.
Appearance
You may assume that Slavic women look very alike, but still there are some differences. To the biggest degree, this is caused by the origins of Russian and Ukrainian women. The beauty of Russian girls is similar to the northern nationalities of the Finno-Baltic type. These are blonde girls with blue/gray/green eyes. Ukrainian women are more like southerners. They commonly have chestnut color hair and brown or green eyes.
Which ones are the best? Well, tastes differ. Here, as they say, who likes what.
Devotion
Russian women are raised dreaming about meeting a prince on a white horse. They are very dedicated to their husbands and family. Russian girls are prepared to be good spouses taking care of their loving people and surroundings.
Ukrainian women are also raised to be very devoted. Ladies of the older generations are very family-oriented. They have a strong belief they should take care of their husbands, cook for them, wash, etc. The younger generation of Ukrainian girls is more open to new types of relations. They are not focused too much on the marriage, but still, they are very caring to the people whom they love. Ukrainian females are more European-oriented.
National character
Russian and Ukrainian ladies have different characteristics. Russian girls are more flexible and patient. It’s quite natural for them to be ‘on the sidelines’ in the family and forgive a lot to their men.
Ukrainian women are more rebellious. They have a more freedom-loving nature, which is mainly caused by the influence of the cult of the Mother Goddess. The latter was very popular in the territories that were occupied by modern Ukraine, Poland, Hungary, Bulgaria, and Romania.
Independence
As it was mentioned earlier, Russian girls devote themselves fully to their husbands and families. Russian females rely on the financial support of their men. Before getting married, Russian girls try to find out if a man can support them. So, if you want to grow in the eyes of a Russian girl, it’s important to give her presents and flowers to show that she can rely on you in the future.
The situation with Ukrainian women is a bit different. However, there are still some girls that were raised similar to Russian females. In most cases, Ukrainian women don’t depend on men entirely. So, it’s better not to restrict their freedom yet treat them nicely when you date.
Divorce statistics
This is one of the main factors that point out the differences between these two Slavic nations. Just compare – in Russia, the percentage of divorces makes up 53% of the complete number of registered unions. In Ukraine, this number makes up about 61%. To compare with other countries, the number of divorces in the USA is 48%, Great Britain 42%, and France 38%.
Such a big number of divorces in Russia and Ukraine are caused by health and physical issues, as well as the drunkenness of their husbands.
What do these numbers mean to us? We can assume that Ukrainian ladies have a hotter temperament and have matriarchal views. Russian girls put family first place and often relegate their personal happiness in the background.
Why American and European Men Love Slavic Girls
This is no longer a surprise to anyone that Americans and men from Western Europe prefer Slavic girls more than their compatriots. Here are the most common reasons:
Russian and Ukrainian women have beautiful appearances. Ladies with beautiful figures and expressive facial features arouse the admiration of men.
The natural femininity of Slavic girls is one of the key things that make them different from girls in Europe and America.
Russian and Ukrainian girls have a perfect sense of style. They always strive to look beautiful. However, this also requires a lot of time and financial costs.
Slavic girls are serious about building strong relationships, as well as reliable as close friends.
Russian and Ukrainian women show wisdom in the relationship and know how to make their men happy.
Slavic girls have great culinary talents. There is a good saying stating that the path to the heart of a man lies through their stomachs.
Best pick up lines that work with Russian girls
Are you religious? Cause you’re the answer to all my prayers.
Somebody call the cops, because it’s got to be illegal to look that good!
I must be a snowflake, because I’ve fallen for you.
Are you cake? Cause I want a piece of that.
There is something wrong with my cell phone. It doesn’t have your number in it.
If I were to ask you out on a date, would your answer be the same as the answer to this question?
You spend so much time in my mind, I should charge you rent.
Life without you is like a broken pencil… pointless.
Even if there wasn’t gravity on earth, I’d still fall for you.
Pinch me, you’re so fine I must be dreaming.
Are you a 90-degree angle? Cause you are looking right!
If I could rearrange the alphabet I would put U and I together.
If beauty were time, you’d be eternity.
Remember me? Oh, that’s right, I’ve met you only in my dreams.
If looks could kill, you’d be a weapon of mass destruction.
If I were a cat I’d spend all 9 lives with you.
You know what you would really look beautiful in? My arms.
My doctor says I’m lacking vitamin U.
Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk past again?
Good thing I just bought term life insurance … because I saw you and my heart stopped!
If I had a dollar for every time I thought of you, I’d be in a higher tax bracket.
Did you hear of the new disease called beautiful, I think you’re infected.
If I had a garden I’d put your tulips and my tulips together.
Perfect Date Ideas for Russian Dating
Go skydiving or bungee jumping;
Take a dance lesson;
Go horseback riding;
Go to a local non-professional sports game;
Rent a convertible sports car or luxury car and cruise around all-day;
Go to the nearest amusement park or water park;
Create a new type of dessert together;
Find some cool science experiment videos on YouTube and try them out;
Drive around looking for yard sales and see if you can find any cool stuff;
Paint and build a model you are both interested in;
Buy some Lego kits and put them together;
Do some wine tasting at a local vineyard or wine tasting festival.
How long should you wait between the first and the second date with Russian or Ukrainian girl?
This is one of the most popular questions we see men asking on forums. Almost everyone has asked this question right after their first date. This is quite natural that you doubt how much time should pass before you schedule the next meeting.
In fact, there isn’t a one-fit-all scenario that can fit everyone around. When planning the second date you need to mind such points as:
Did you feel comfortable during the first date?
How quickly did you manage to find a common language?
Did you have any common topics for discussion?
Did you mind any signals that you found a sense of mutual attraction?
The more positive answers you give to the aforementioned questions, the more likely is that you have found the right person and you can think about planning your further dates.
Is it OK to schedule your next meeting on the first date? If you are confident in the feelings of your partner, then you may ask your girlfriend about the next time you can see one another. If there is some doubt, then it’s better not to rush things and let your lady think things through carefully.
It’s recommended to take a short pause of about 5 days to make your lady think about you and wait for the news. If you delay the time by more than 2 weeks, then don’t be surprised if you will simply be forgotten by your lady.
The optimal time to schedule the second date is three days after the first rendezvous This is the time for which the pleasant impression of your communication is maintained. The gap should be smaller if you had an online date. In such cases, you shouldn’t wait for longer than 1 day to meet with your lady in person.
Should Woman Pay for a Date?
The time of knights is in the past. Today, ladies can conquer the world by themselves. In the XXI century, we know a lot of cases when women start and run successful companies by themselves. The life of a modern woman doesn’t spin around the household only. Women have become independent, which has brought a sense of confusion to men. Very often, men do not know how to behave properly in the presence of a strong woman. When they can pay for her in a restaurant? Or should they better split the bill?
When a woman invites you to a cafe or restaurant on her birthday, then it’s OK if she pays the bill as a birthday treat. In other cases, a man needs to pay for a woman. This is just a gesture and can be treated as a responsibility to defend and take care of his beloved lady.
Best Ukrainian and Russian Dating sites
There are plenty of great opportunities to start chatting with Slavic girls and start serious relationships using online dating sites. If you are looking for serious relationships, then the following list of free online dating sites with come in handy for you.
VictoriyaClub. This is one of the leading and most popular online dating sites to meet Slavic girls and begin serious relationships. The site lets you communicate with women from Russia and Ukraine using a standard live chat, as well as video chats and web cameras. Moreover, the agents can help you plan your visit to the country where your lady lives. They can help you find the proper accommodations, plan your dates, and take care of buying flowers for your woman.
TenderBride. This Ukrainian dating site was launched in 2014. The site was founded by a couple who had a positive experience of using marriage sites, which ended with a happy marriage. The site is rather fresh and innovative. It makes use of scan abuse services to protect the personal data of its members.
UniqueSingles. This is one of the largest Slavic dating sites on the web. The main focus of the web resource is to help men from the “West” find soulmates from Eastern Europe. The site opened in 2003. Ever since then, they’ve opened about 500 offices in Ukraine and Russia. The site helps singles from all over the world find their perfect matches in live chats, video chats, and voice chats.
GoldenBride. This is one of the largest Russian dating sites offering excellent services and advanced possibilities for men to start dating women from Russia and Eastern Europe. The site offers a number of innovative and useful tools to facilitate international communication. They also let you try their mobile application to provide singles with unlimited access to their profiles through their smartphones.
BridesAndLovers. This is the Ukrainian dating site that was launched in 2009. There are about 200,000 active users accessing the website monthly. The site is easy to use. It offers a quick sign-up. It takes 3-4 minutes to create a free account and start looking for your perfect match. The site connects men from the USA, Canada, and Western Europe with ladies from Ukraine, Russia, and Belarus.
UkrainianDating. This is the leading Ukrainian dating website that helps men arrange their perfect Ukrainian date. There are thousands of profiles of ladies from Ukraine, as well as Russia, Slovakia, Serbia, etc. The website offers both free and premium subscription plans. If you look more than a standard free subscription includes, then for $10/mo men can get unlimited communication with Ukrainian ladies. The platform also offers easy access to translation services.
FindBride. This is the perfect place where men from the USA and Canada find their love from Russia and Ukraine. This is a website with absolutely free registration for men and women serious about starting long-lasting relationships. The service offers all services that are needed to communicate and build families. The site offers such services as live chat, email, two-way video stream, and more. Whenever necessary, the site agents help its members plan outdoor arrangements.
Final Words about Ukrainian & Russian Dating
There is no doubt in the fact that Russian and Ukrainian women are the best lovers and wives. Slavic girls are beautiful and wise. They are good at keeping household and building serious relationships, as well as starting happy families. Slavic women are different from girls in Western Europe, the USA, and Canada. Slavid girls combine western values with the eastern mentality.
Thanks to their genes, Slavic girls have an unusual beauty that makes them different from western and eastern girls. Also, dating a Slavic girl is somewhat different from other romances. Most Slavic families tend to follow traditional values. However, Slavic girls highly appreciate the initiative in different questions to come from men.
Another point that we simply cannot forget about is the national cuisine that Russian and Ukrainian girls specialize in. You should definitely enjoy local borsch, pelmeni, draniki. This is one of the reasons why you should certainly visit Russia, Ukraine, or Belarus anyways. Moreover, the vast majority of local girls will be able to cook them for you.
We have already seen so many happy stories of men from the USA, Canada, and Europe who found their love on Slavic dating sites. Become one of those happy men who find their second half in Russia or Ukraine.
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